docs: clarify Lambda DB pool sizing and sequential query behavior

[jbeard4]

Motivation

• Document the database pool environment variables and explain whether DATABASE_POOL_MAX=1 is safe for Lambda given that the codebase uses Promise.all(...) fan-outs for some DB work.

Description

• Update README.md to add DATABASE_POOL_MAX and DATABASE_POOL_MIN environment variable docs and a Lambda connection pooling note that explains presence of Promise.all(...) queries and why pool.max=1 is acceptable for per-Lambda environments while noting the latency tradeoff for fan-out endpoints.

Testing

• Performed automated code searches (rg) to confirm Promise.all(...) fan-outs and inspected src/config.js to verify the default pool.max behavior, and ran the repository pre-commit lint check which failed due to unrelated repo lint errors; no unit/integration tests were executed for this docs-only change.

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