[flink] Support batch UPDATE and partial update for primary-key tables

[loserwang1024]

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Motivation

Currently, Fluss Flink Connector only supports limited UPDATE statements on primary-key tables. In practice, UPDATE is only available for simple primary-key based updates, while general batch UPDATE with filters still cannot be executed because the source side does not support the required row-level modification scan in batch mode.

This issue aims to support batch UPDATE for Fluss primary-key tables, including partial update when only a subset of columns is modified.

Users can run batch maintenance or correction jobs, for example:

UPDATE orders SET status = 'expired'
WHERE dt = '2026-07-21';

UPDATE orders SET amount = amount + 10
WHERE category = 'A';

UPDATE orders SET comment = 'archived'
WHERE update_time < TIMESTAMP '2026-07-01 00:00:00';

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### Willingness to contribute

- [x] I'm willing to submit a PR!